Comments on: An Uncommunicative Husband http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/ A part of Jannah BlogGarden Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:33:57 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: amatullah http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-6072 amatullah Fri, 10 Jul 2009 22:23:26 +0000 http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-6072 asalamualaikum great blog mashallah.Keep up the good work.We need reminders like these to realise where we can improve our marriages inshallah. Wassalaam asalamualaikum

great blog mashallah.Keep up the good work.We need reminders like these to realise where we can improve our marriages inshallah.

Wassalaam

]]> By: Broken Mystic http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2775 Broken Mystic Tue, 19 Feb 2008 03:54:27 +0000 http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2775 Communication is such an important aspect of relationships and I'm really glad to see that you're addressing that here. Marriage should not only be seen as a wedding of husband and wife, but a wedding of two Friends. And Friends must know one another, they must share and learn from each other. If one person is not communicating and sharing his/her thoughts, then isn't that being unfair to the other spouse? I don't know why Muslim men in particular neglect their wives in this way. Spending time with one's wife should be one of the most beautiful things in the world. After all, why did God create Eve (peace be upon her) in the first place? Men and women are created from a SINGLE SOUL as the Qur'an states. In order to build healthier relationships, we must acknowledge this TRUTH. A husband should look at his wife and feel blessed. He should wake up every morning and thank Allah for such a beautiful and special person in his life. He should look at her and see his SOUL MATE. I have never been married, but if I were to advise brothers in Islam, I would tell them to never take marriage for granted. Take advice from someone who has suffered, and just live life to the fullest with them. Marriage is from Allah, it's a blessing to be cherished, not ignored. Communication is such an important aspect of relationships and I’m really glad to see that you’re addressing that here. Marriage should not only be seen as a wedding of husband and wife, but a wedding of two Friends. And Friends must know one another, they must share and learn from each other. If one person is not communicating and sharing his/her thoughts, then isn’t that being unfair to the other spouse?

I don’t know why Muslim men in particular neglect their wives in this way. Spending time with one’s wife should be one of the most beautiful things in the world. After all, why did God create Eve (peace be upon her) in the first place? Men and women are created from a SINGLE SOUL as the Qur’an states. In order to build healthier relationships, we must acknowledge this TRUTH. A husband should look at his wife and feel blessed. He should wake up every morning and thank Allah for such a beautiful and special person in his life. He should look at her and see his SOUL MATE. I have never been married, but if I were to advise brothers in Islam, I would tell them to never take marriage for granted. Take advice from someone who has suffered, and just live life to the fullest with them. Marriage is from Allah, it’s a blessing to be cherished, not ignored.

]]> By: iMuslim http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2764 iMuslim Mon, 18 Feb 2008 15:21:45 +0000 http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2764 Assalamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullah I pray that you are in the best of health & imaan. This is a short message to notify you that this entry has been selected for publishing on <a href="http://www.ijtema.net/about-ijtemanet" rel="nofollow">IJTEMA.net, a venture to highlight the best of the Muslim blogosphere</a>. Please visit the site to find out more about our initiative. May Allah bless you for your noble efforts. Wa'salam Assalamu ‘alaykum wa rahmatullah
I pray that you are in the best of health & imaan.
This is a short message to notify you that this entry has been selected for publishing on IJTEMA.net, a venture to highlight the best of the Muslim blogosphere. Please visit the site to find out more about our initiative.
May Allah bless you for your noble efforts.
Wa’salam

]]> By: Ijtema » Blog Archive » An Uncommunicative Husband http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2763 Ijtema » Blog Archive » An Uncommunicative Husband Mon, 18 Feb 2008 15:21:42 +0000 http://muslimmarriages.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/an-uncommunicative-husband/#comment-2763 [...] The “All About Muslim Marriages” blog offers advice on how to deal with an uncommunicati...: When we behave antithetically to the principles of tawheed on a personal level, we effectively close all paths to learning. We lose the kind of learning that helps us reevaluate what we think is correct. When we stop learning, then we also become blocked to learning from one another. We put labels upon one another and condemn each other to that label, which prevents growth, change, and rejuvenation. [...] [...] The “All About Muslim Marriages” blog offers advice on how to deal with an uncommunicati…: When we behave antithetically to the principles of tawheed on a personal level, we effectively close all paths to learning. We lose the kind of learning that helps us reevaluate what we think is correct. When we stop learning, then we also become blocked to learning from one another. We put labels upon one another and condemn each other to that label, which prevents growth, change, and rejuvenation. [...]

]]>